{"id":1260,"date":"2012-03-30T16:28:17","date_gmt":"2012-03-30T15:28:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elmalet.co.uk\/?p=1260"},"modified":"2012-03-30T16:28:17","modified_gmt":"2012-03-30T15:28:17","slug":"une-vie-empruntee-par-simon-parke","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elmalet.co.uk\/?p=1260","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Une Vie emprunt\u00e9e&#8217; par Simon Parke"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Le jeune homme \u00e9tait venu dans ce pays pour \u00e9tudier. M\u00eame s&#8217;il travaillait \u00e0 temps partiel dans un magasin, c&#8217;est pour d\u00e9crocher un dipl\u00f4me qu&#8217;il \u00e9tait venu ici.<br \/>\nIl n&#8217;avait pas vraiment eu le choix. C&#8217;\u00e9tait le souhait de son p\u00e8re et son p\u00e8re etait un homme tr\u00e8s volontaire.<br \/>\nIl d\u00e9crocherait donc un dipl\u00f4me universitaire. Personne dans son village n&#8217;en avait un. Il serait le premier ! Le premier homme de son village avec un dipl\u00f4me !<br \/>\nTel \u00e9tait le souhait de son p\u00e8re.<\/p>\n<p>Ce jeune homme \u00e9tait donc venu dans ce pays pour r\u00e9aliser les r\u00eaves de quelqu&#8217;un d&#8217;autre, des r\u00eaves qui n&#8217;\u00e9taient pas les siens.<br \/>\nIl a donc v\u00e9cu une vie emprunt\u00e9e, une vie emprunt\u00e9e \u00e0 celle de son p\u00e8re, une vie par procuration au nom d&#8217;une autre personne.<\/p>\n<p><em>Quelle honte, car nous sommes tous des \u00eatres uniques.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tir\u00e9 de &#8216;M\u00e9ditation Minute&#8217; par Simon Parke (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.simonparke.com\">www.simonparke.com<\/a>). Disponible d&#8217;amazon.co.uk (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\">www.amazon.co.uk<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">A borrowed life:<\/span> by Simon Parke<\/p>\n<p>The young man had come to this country to study. He was working part-time in a store, but he&#8217;d come to get a degree.<br \/>\nIt hadn&#8217;t really been his choice. His father wished it and his father was a forceful man.<br \/>\nSo he&#8217;d get a proper university degree. No one in his village had one of those. He was to be the first! The first man in the village with a degree!<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s what his father wanted.<\/p>\n<p>And so it was that he came to this country with second-hand dreams &#8211; dreams that were not his own.<br \/>\nAnd he lived a borrowed life, a life borrowed from his father&#8217;s wardrobe, a vicarious existence, on behalf of someone else.<\/p>\n<p><em>Which is a shame, because we were made to be original.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Taken from &#8216;One-Minute Mystic&#8217; by Simon Parke (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.simonparke.com\">www.simonparke.com<\/a>). Available on amazon.co.uk (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\">www.amazon.co.uk<\/a>).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Le jeune homme \u00e9tait venu dans ce pays pour \u00e9tudier. M\u00eame s&#8217;il travaillait \u00e0 temps partiel dans un magasin, c&#8217;est pour d\u00e9crocher un dipl\u00f4me qu&#8217;il \u00e9tait venu ici. Il n&#8217;avait pas vraiment eu le choix. 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